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... work may be modified and then distributed under a different license, even one that is less free.

... bondage, with the added factor that should anything go wrong, there is no-one to effect a rescue. For example, if blood circulation cuts off sensation in * Using multiple release mechanisms as a backup in case one fails.

...t 12 feet); but if you have two laces, you can start one at the bottom and one at the top, and have them meet in the middle. Tying them together can work, * If one can bend the boning easily, it will probably not withstand the rigours of r

* Levels of sex hormone testosterone can be temporarily affected by one's role S&M interactions. Dominant participants often have raised testoster ...nflicted or received in love, not in [[abuse]], for the pleasure of either one or both participants. This mutual pleasure may even be essential for the sa

...n the sexual arousal in an individual will vary from person to person. For one person [[objectification]] and sexual [[humiliation]] might be a huge turn A [[Submissive#Noun|submissive]] person is one who submits of their own free will and seeks to submit to another. This can

...l almost every case, the right atmosphere and enough space to play will be one of the first things to plan. This can be acheived simply by rearranging the

... Steelwerks Extreme] makers of very high quality male chastity devices and one off products.

...rather than bound men, despite the most common fantasy in both sexes being one of being bound, rather than of being the dominant. This may be because man

...e workplace) as shown by an employer required drug test. Having said that, one of the difficulties with the English and North American criminal law in thi ... or prosecutor decides to take action, or a radical priest or pastor prods one to do so. Even if you are into caning, needle-play or heavy flogging, you'l

...s [[Mistress]], depending on the type of dominant they are. Dominatrix is one of the favourite words used by writers outside the Scene - for example, by

...The classic partial suspension position is to have the person balancing on one foot with part of their weight supported through a chest harness and the ot ...s, thus also creating a form of mental bondage in addition to the physical one that holds them. Being suspended, especially in a large open space, also cr

...thstanding the pain of receiving a tattoo the size of one's entire back in one sitting, usually performed in the traditional "hand-poked" style. Tattoos, Tattooing has also been featured prominently in one of the Four Classic Novels in Chinese literature, Water Margin, in which at

** with one or two hinges ...h physical restraint apply to the use of handcuffs or other restraints. No-one should ever be left alone when restrained. Handcuffs are not suitable for [

'''Safe, sane and consensual''' ('''SSC''') is one of several phrases used by a large section of the [[BDSM]] and [[bondage]]

...oman is taken from behind ([[Vagina|vaginally]] or [[Anal sex|anally]]) by one man at the same time as being mouth fucked (or giving [[oral sex]]) by anot

...tinuum ranging from artistic or tasteful absence of clothing by choice, at one end, to a forced or mandatory condition of being without clothes (e.g., a s ...ated as "stark naked", is literally 'red' naked, as such exposure may make one 'blush'.

The modification of pubic hair can also be considered a statement about one's style or personal lifestyle as can leaving it unmodified. The fashion des

... violent, forceful sex. One can imagine that one is the [[rapist]], or the one being raped. It is estimated that 24% of men and 36% of women have had a r One form of sexual [[roleplay]]ing is the rape fantasy, also called "ravishment

Because of the association with female dominance, it is one of the positions promoted in feminist journals and lectures.

...o one roller, and the [[wrist]]s are [[chain]]ed to the other. Gradually, one or both rollers are gradually turned, using a handle, with a ratchet causin

... two strands, it is best pulled symmetrically, one strand to the right and one to the left.

A smotherbox has two openings. One is in a vertical side of the box for the sub's neck (the head is of course .../www.tabool.com/moebel_detail.php?id=4&subid=1&lang=e Another source, this one for a kit]

Scaffolding is also one of the most versatile bits of [[BDSM]] kit you can buy. A relatively small

'''Power exchange''' (also called '''Erotic power exchange''') refers to one person giving their [[submission]] in exchange for another person giving th ... applied to individual [[scene]]s or to people's entire way of relating to one another. Power exchange may be applied to very specific aspects, such as l

...if the urine is sufficiently diluted and not consumed in mass quantities. One may also wish to drink some water after consuming urine in order to mitigat The participants should use caution or avoid drinking urine if one or both of them are taking vitamin or mineral supplements or medication, si

...ssive]] can find it very exciting to be 'forced' to wear a plug or to have one inserted while [[bondage|bound]] by the [[top (BDSM)|top]] as this breaks a * Remote control. One mistress on the London scene uses one of these in [[fetish club]]s as a form of pager for her [[slave]] to let hi

This can be one of the most difficult styles of rigging, as not only must you be incredibly

...and the results can be dangerous, particularly for [[suspension bondage]]. One should not assume that everything printed in Japanese SM magazines is the g

...d thus - apart from metal-detectors - not easily be discovered, as long as one doesn't wear very tight clothes. When choosing a belt, it may be important ...ar. Some find that the support provided by [[jockstrap]]s or briefs enable one to wear a chastity belt much more conveniently than wearing [[boxer shorts]

...sociated with [[physical restraint]] apply to the use of bondage cuffs. No-one should ever be left alone when restrained. Bondage cuffs are not suitable f

...xperience an electric shock. "Electric kiss" machines were created so that one person, generally sitting on an insulated chair, could be charged up then k

...roducers, a violet wand will ignite flammable liquids and gases. Never use one in the presence of flammable gases or liquids unless used specifically for

*[http://www.peselectro.com/ Paradise Electro Stimulations] One of the first makers of specialist BDSM TENS units

Indeed, so far not one (repeat, not one) single physician, nurse, paramedic, chiropractor, physiologist, or other p ... how one can play safely with breath control is very similar to asking how one can drive a car safely while draining it of oil.

One reason why rubber and other tight shiny fabrics may be fetishised is perhap One variant of rubber fetishism involves [[Mackintosh]]es, a form of overcoat m

...[[sex]]ual or [[fetish]]ist reasons. Similarly, although cross-dressing is one type of transgender behaviour, not all cross-dressing is caused by [[transg

...k]] indicated that one was seeking a partner, a closed lock indicated that one was in a relationship. This symbolism has been less common after 1995 or so ...and [[Goth]] scenes have also adopted collars as a purely fashion item, so one cannot assume that all people wearing collars are into [[D/s]] or [[BDSM]].

...er of basic types. However, many hoods will combine elements of more than one type in their design.

Note that some partners like to switch roles from one encounter to the other, or even during a single encounter, depending on moo

... unwillingly turned into an android. That person can be either oneself or one's partner, or both. It is usually the process of transformation (through w ...s this preference is very strong, and people can be as equally repelled by one type as they are attracted to the other. In other cases, there is as much

One reason why spandex and other tight fabrics are fetishised may be that the g

...ted. Enforced orgasm-denial for good reason often is considered as a must. One of the first things a Master nowadays demands of His slave is that he'll gi The chastity belt is one of the most brilliant devices ever contrived in human history for a Master

...s of the [[Fetish]] and [[BDSM]] community. Fetish clubs tend to fall into one of two categories: play clubs and dance clubs.

... best known works of erotic literature. The Ananga Ranga is a lesser known one, aimed specifically at preventing the separation of a husband and wife.

....) The precise safeword(s) should be discussed clearly; if one is used to one word and the other used to another word, there is little harm in agreeing t

'''Verbal humiliation''' is the intense humiliation of one person by another through disparaging comments.

...eft or top. The <b>Go</b> button will take you directly to an article, if one exists with that title. The <b>Search</b> button will show all articles th

...ne who can be either a top or bottom (not necessarily to the same person), one who can both dominate and submit. Common myths about switches:

Human '''pony play''' is a form of [[roleplay]] where one person acts like a pony or horse, while their partner takes on the role of ...s is an easy step to make since the bit acts as a [[gag]] (and may even be one) and a harness is often on the pony, restricting or controlling movement.

... be a [[masochist]]. It is possible for two partners to switch roles from one encounter to the other, or even during a single encounter, depending on moo

Note that it is not uncommon for two partners to [[switch]] roles from one encounter to the other, or even during a [[Scene|single encounter]], depend

... of pull pressure. Another method is to use the clamps to keep a person in one place. If cord is tied from the clamp to a fixed place, the wearer of the c

** The [[tawse]], a strap split into a number of tails at one end.

...e are sexually aroused by the sight of gags, or activities involving gags. One specific interest relates to scenes on television in which the [[captor]] g

...val. In pointing to how conditioned sexual behavior can persist over time, one may cite how, in 2004, when quails were trained to copulate with a piece of One basis of this fetish is that the material forms a "second skin" that acts a

'''Skin Two''' is one of the older companies in the [[fetish]] scene. Started in the 1980s as a [

The '''whip''' is one of the icons of [[BDSM]] imagery and practice. As an image, the whip is use

...but do not provide the feeling of inescapability that many captives seek.) One of the important uses of cages is to provoke feelings of psychological reac ...ooking slightly ridiculous. Since movement can be severely restricted, no-one should be left in a gibbet cage for long, as discomfort can quickly and sud

... emphasis is on socialising and BDSM play. We have one large play area and one more secluded area. COMING SOON!! Large play room complete with suspension

So one sad day they said goodbye<BR>

... of six erotic stories called ''Aural Seductions'' - Erotic Stories Volume One.

... psychosexual behaviours, customs and rituals relating to the dominance of one individual over another. In terms of [[BDSM]] this occurs within an entire ...n, with male subs outnumbering Dommes by the widest margin, often three to one or more. "[[Dominatrix]]" is a term usually reserved for a female [[Profess

|OTW||One True Way (usually sarcasm)

.... Thus there is no question of being "in scene" or "out of scene"; life is one continuous scene. It would normally imply a live-together arrangement, but

...ng involved in consciousness-raising work in the area she bought herself a one-way ticket to San Francisco in 1973, bringing an interest in sex education

... [[breast]] and [[nipple]]s at the same time. A woman may sometimes insert one or more fingers inside the [[vagina]] and repeatedly stroke the frontal wal Masturbation is one of the easiest ways for a woman to reach orgasm.

A '''catsuit''' is a skin-tight one-piece garment with sleeves and long legs, and sometimes with feet or gloves

In '''[[BDSM]]''', '''humiliation''' is one psychological technique a [[Top (BDSM)|top]] may use on a [[Bottom (BDSM)|b ... their low status, and even be made to repeat this back to the humiliator. One example may be as simple as having a slave call their Master "Sir" or "Mast

...s and illustrators School) , under Batman inker Jerry Robinson and others. One classmate was future Spider-Man co-creator Steve Ditko, with whom from 1958

...l's picture or bio to the panties, personalising them for the consumer. At one point, such panties were even made for sale in vending machines in the Chib One variant is '''crotchless panties''', which have a large hole over the [[cro

A defunct [[club]] is one that is no longer operating. The club details should be left on Wipipedia

An active [[club]] is one that is currently operating.

...atural state (or what is perceived to be its natural state.) For example, one might say that the modern film version of "Romeo & Juliet" ''perverted'' th

...still possible for [[semen]] to enter the vagina and result in pregnancy. One appeal of heterosexual anal sex is the fact that the anus is tighter than t ... considered gay. In some contexts anal sex between men, particularly when one or both partners identify as heterosexual, is associated with dominance, di

*''The Art of John Willie - Sophisticated Bondage (Book One)''

In one of his few public statements, Dolcett said : "I must repeat that these are

... chattel of their owner or [[Master]]. Strictly speaking, to be a slave, one must be owned but many people searching for an owner will call themselves " ... the four types. There are very few relationships which are involve purely one type of slavery only.

...g a sexual encounter, in order to evoke a sexual fantasy in oneself and/or one's partner. Sometimes roleplaying may occur where one party remains as "his/herself" while the other takes on the persona of a ce

...rness''') is a [[dildo]] designed to be worn (usually in a [[harness]]) by one partner and used to penetrate another partner [[vagina]]lly, [[anal sex|ana ...o one "right" answer. Some dildos do not need a harness or are built onto one; for these, please see the sections on [[#Dildo types|dildo types]] and [[#

...decisions and to give orders) is consensual. The relationship is a mutual one with parties participating in their role, not in the other's. Dominance by

If you're trying to be safe in your kinky explorations, then condoms are one of the most important weapons in your armoury. Not only do they protect aga

...r, there are frequently problems associated with this forced assignment to one or other gender.

...athermen" of the 1960s and 1970s (now known as [[Old Guard leather]]) were one of the first well-organized and partially-public subcultures based around w

The ''[[Wipipedia]]'' is one such source of information, providing thousands of 'pages' of information w

In some people's opinions strap-ons can be bloody hard work to use! Using one gave me more respect for men's abilities! It can be very tiring on the arms

...ictorials of tied-up women, often with a fictional narrative attached, and one fictional story of three or four pages in length. Sometimes pictorials were

...g a straitjacket on someone who might use these tricks. It's possible for one person to put another willing volunteer into a straitjacket, but it takes t ...s magician brother, Hardeen, who also did the escape, could only dislocate one shoulder.

The smoking fetish has emerged in recent years as one of the more socially unacceptable fetishes, likely due to the rising social

...nsformation fantasy|animal transformation fantasies and roleplays]], where one person may act like a dog, pony, horse, or other animal, while a sexual par ...worth in the known universe--a concept known as 'human exceptionalism' ... one of the reasons bestiality is condemned through law is that such degrading c

...broadly similar to [[mutual masturbation]], all the way to fights in which one participant is rendered unconscious. Most commonly it is a form of [[wrestl

...age:Missionary_Sex_Position-small.png|thumb|The [[missionary position]] is one popular position for sexual intercourse]] ...ication of the [[vagina]]. The erect penis is inserted into the vagina and one or both of the partners move back and forth to stimulate themselves and eac

Some men enjoy having their prostate gland stimulated; this is posited as one of the reasons why [[anal sex]] is pleasurable. Extensive stimulation of th

...eighbor into sexual slavery; two lesbians who live together in Park Slope, one of whom is very PC until... ; two swinging het couples in a long-term quart This one came out in Paris in 1956, approximately two years after Story of O. The Im

:A [[vanilla]] couple in which one partner occasionally sucks the penis of the other. Or, ...ements are interferred with (eg, by teeth or bending so much as 'fracture' one of the engorged erectile tissue tubes), the damage may be permanent, or fat

...g a specific "lifestyle" implies a conscious or unconscious choice between one set of behaviours and some other sets of behaviours.

'''Insex''' was one of the biggest [[BDSM]] [[pornography]] websites on the [[Internet]] and ar ...t names in fetish modeling either started at Insex or passed through it at one point in their career, as did bondage riggers including such figures as Cla

...nywhere from 200 to more than 850 pages long. Manga magazines also contain one-shot comics and various four-panel yonkoma (equivalent to comic strips). Ma ...ecome one of fastest growing consumer industries, and Indonesia has become one of the biggest manga markets outside of Japan. Manga in Indonesia is publis

...urther proposes to time-constraint consent such that an agreement made for one [[scene]] would not be explicit to another scene. [http://www.lawcom.gov.u #*One exception to that would be when a masochist is so high on endorphines that

...s started in 1964 and continues today as HOM. During the 1970`s HOM became one of the main producers and suppliers of fetish /SM magazines, videos and sex ...ictorials of tied-up women, often with a fictional narrative attached, and one fictional story of three or four pages in length. Sometimes pictorials were

...en written as ''animé'', with an acute accent on the final ''e'' to let one know that it is pronounced, but this follows no standard transliteration sc ...rames. This was intended to be a temporary measure to allow him to produce one episode every week with inexperienced animation staff. Anime studios have s

...ual activity]] involving contact between the [[anus]] or perianal areas of one person and the [[mouth]] of another. Thus, anilingus is simultaneously [[a

...he Khajuraho statues, it has religious meaning. ''[[The Joy of Sex]]'' was one of the first widely accepted modern [[sex manual]]s to describe sexual posi ...among these positions. Some may be more physically difficult or tiring for one partner, while others offer a break or resting point that will maintain a p

...xcept for two eye holes. The eye holes may be covered with a mesh or even one way mirrors so that the wearer's eyes cannot be seen.

...(typically about £200 per person) but they are also cheaper than a one-on-one session with a pro-domme and provide a very different dynamic.

... '''frotteurism''' is the act of achieving sexual gratification by rubbing one's (clothed or naked) body against another person. ...public place&#8212;like on a crowded train. The contact may be mutual or a one-way perpetration. A person who practices frotteurism is known as a ''frotte

...ng orgasm. [http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/sexpedia/mandj.html] One of the results was the promotion of the idea that vaginal and clitoral orga

...n which two or more persons connected remotely via a computer network send one another sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. It is a One approach to cybering is a simulation of "real" sex, when participants try t

...ted that non-preexisting antibodies were produced in humans in response to one's own sperm. These antibodies mistakenly recognized native T lymphocytes as

...ey raise, and to combat voyeurism, e.g. several gyms in the United States. One country, Saudi Arabia, has banned the sale of camera phones nationwide (alt

...to be stated as: '''For any given kink, either nobody does it or more than one person does it.''' ...ing it was written by -^-^Spectrum^-^-, who wrote it "You are not the only one."

'''YKIOK,IJNMK''' was one of the cornerstone ideas of the [[alt.sex.bondage]] newsgroup in the 1990s.

'''Mermaid play''' is a [[bondage]] [[scene]] where one or more people (usually female) pretend to be [[mermaid]]s.

...re being expired (deleted from the server). Usually they will be kept for one or two weeks, but some admins keep articles in local or technical newsgroup ...t Internet Service Providers host their own News Server, or rent access to one, for their subscribers. There are also a number of companies who sell acces

approval of the current one, in which this offence is no * in the right to one's own image and clothing or to the absence of such,

...n goals was to dignify the popular perception of fetish. He is regarded as one of the patron saints of the world-wide Rubberist community as a result. Som

...e: the hands are tied behind the back and the feet are tied together, with one end of the latter rope around the victim's neck. The tension of the legs pu

To prevent the wearer from wriggling their arms out of the sleeve, one of several arrangements of straps is used. The most common is a pair of par

* [[Fire]]; see [[Cigarette]], where lit cigarettes or cigars are applied to one's skin.

...ur''' is a form of physical intimacy that may be directed to reproduction (one possible goal of [[sexual intercourse]]) and/or to the enjoyment of activit ...own body also, the latter may also happen without another person; enjoying one's own body also may or may not be of a sexual nature. If it is, it is calle

...s Run'', the character Jessica 6 wears a garment which is like a camisk on one side (and a cylindrical metal collar as well) during her first appearance; ...atus, and can then be sold off into slavery or third-party captivity if no one comes forward to pay the debt.

...of infection with diseases such as [[hepatitis]]. Note that even consuming one's own faeces could have potentially harmful consequencies, as the bowel bac

During one of the annual pilgrimages to the sun, sand and surf she adored, Bettie Page ...old for ''Playboy'' magazine in its January 1955 issue. Bettie also became one of Hugh Hefner's obsessions. When Page was almost forced to file for bankru

...s for short). Diaper fetishism is a type of [[sexual fetishism]], which is one of many paraphilias. ...n which communities the fetishist will identify with. In diaper fetishism, one of the primary divisions of preference is whether or not the diapers are us

...ok dignified before succumbing to the need to wet themselves. Depending on one's role in an omorashi scenario (as the wetter or the watcher) these acts co One of the variations is known as omorashi yagai, which translates as "to wet o

...on in which sexual gratification is obtained from the indecent exposure of one's genitals (as to a stranger); an act of such exposure; the act or practice

...e of the vulva and the size of the various parts varies substantially from one woman to another, and it is common for the left and right sides of the vulv

One reason why these materials may be fetishised is that the garment acts as a

'''Foot worship''' is the term for the [[BDSM]] practice of one person, usually male, giving extreme adulation to the [[foot]] of another p Foot worship can include licking the foot of one's "dom" or "[[Dominatrix|domme]]", massaging it, kissing it, praising it, a

...iven by the same person but by the parties themselves, the strongest-armed one actually has an unfair (but not always decisive) physical advantage. * as a game, either to display one's tenacity 'proudly' (often to impress some audience) or in the pursuit of

...tishes''' is a 1996 documentry by Nick Broomfield filmed at Pandora's Box, one of New York City's most luxurious [[SM]]/[[Fetish]] parlours. The film cont

...nformed of the what the activity will be and the risks involved in it. No one is denying the risk raised by anyone else. RACK can be used outside of the pure BDSM arena. One area where it is gaining favour is in the dogging and swinging circles - ac

... a set of statuses by which members of the society identify themselves and one another, and which to some extent determine the interaction between them.

It is very commonplace for partners to change roles from one encounter to the next or to have both insertive and receptive sex, although

It is possible for two partners to [[switch]] roles from one encounter to the other, or even during a single encounter, depending on moo

...d lead to further complications if the captive is suspended from more than one point. Like all suspension, use of panic snaps needs to be well thought out ...ced [[dominant]] should be aware enough to pre-empt their use and any good one will take their use seriously.

...]] as a pretext to inflict punishment. However, a '''disciplinarian''' is one who enjoys gaining control over someone's physical actions and apparent beh Of course, one person's punishment is another's reward. For some of us, [[Physical punishm

... not have to have an audience, nor does it imply roleplay, [[S&M]] or any one specific element.

...s ''sexual orientation'' is most often classified by the [[sex|gender(s)]] one is "oriented" towards, typically as: ... at a time, and sometimes happen to have sexual and romantic partners from one only gender throughout their entire lives, despite attraction to some peopl

Some partners switch roles from one encounter to the other, or even during a single encounter, depending on moo

...one could be included to assure extra painful crisscrossing of the wounds. One dozen was usually awarded as a highly sensitizing 'prelude' to running the ...multiple tails in any number (so it is better to call them just cat), even one made from 80 twigs (so rather a limp birch) to flog a sick Iranian (in stea

Sociologists usually define '''power''' as the ability to impose one's will on others, even if those others resist in some way. ...unity existing within a social relationship which permits one to carry out one's own will even against resistance and regardless of the basis on which thi

In terms of [[BDSM]], an '''owner''' is one who takes responsibility for, and has authority over, another person. The Ownership of one person by another is not legal and there is no implication that this is an

...i Speransky, is a very well known figure in Novosibirsk. The doctor became one of the authors of the shocking whipping therapy. The professor used the sel ...w level. The method is cheap and highly efficient, as its authors assure. One is left wondering why not use something more efficient: a rack, for example

...hile for others it provides a way to anonymously enjoy [[exhibitionism]]. One might also experience it as a form of [[Bondage|sexual bondage]], even thou

The leathermen of the 1960s and 1970s (now known as Old Guard) were one of the first well-organized and partially-public subcultures based around w

... of a dispute, and not make an article state, imply, or insinuate that any one side is correct.

...me. Owners can spend less than one-hundred to many thousands of dollars on one fursuit, depending on the complexity of the design and on the materials use A person who wears a fursuit generally falls into one or more of five categories.

...ly are not all bottoms subs but a bottom is not necessarily submissive. At one end of the continuum is a [[submissive]] who enjoys taking orders from a [[

..., with most preferring a pronunciation identical to ''Dom'', by analogy to one-syllable French-derived words like femme or blonde. Some others have assum

[[Fetish market]]s often have at least one stall selling second hand clothing. Also try second hand shops, markets for One really easy and affordable option is to go in [[uniform]]. I know some subs

... first thing to point out is that everyone is different and what works for one person may not work for another. A good beating will leave the sub in an al ...mmence! This may be a little misleading since the beating process is often one of continual building of intensity throughout the scene. However, the sub w

...ampire Chronicles' '' series, ''Queen of the Damned'', skipping the second one. Also, a rather funny film version of her adult book ''Exit to Eden'' was c

... start with a well-established slavery structure and chronicle the life of one or more slaves. These scenarios are often based in either the south of the ...nslaved Earth women ('Captive', 'Slave Girl', 'Kajira' and 'Dancer'), with one ('Fighting Slave') involving a newly enslaved man.

...tic bag over his head. A length of flex wound around the bag at his neck; one end led to his hand, then the flex ran down his body to his left leg, where

...is the modern popular horror genre, in which the horror film is paramount. One of the earliest impersonators of cinematic goth might be the silent movie a

Information about scarification can be found on the internet, one of the best sources is [[BMEzine]] who also run their own wiki. Many of the *Unlike tattoos, scarifications are a product of one's own body.

...e report that it enhances the pleasure of kissing. With a bit of practice, one can learn to move the forks of the tongue

...urope. Most major cities in North America and western Europe have at least one swing club in a permanent location although they often keep a low profile t ...lifestyle and the clubs can be at least as much a social venue as a sexual one.

...gang bang''' is intercourse between one woman, or man, and a group of men, one after another. An alternate slang phrase for this practice is "pulling a tr ...y]]. '''Triple Penetration''' refers to a type of orgy involving 3 men and one woman, in which a penis is inserted into the woman's mouth, vagina, and anu

...winging|swingers]], who primarily seek sexual gratification from more than one partner but may be more closely involved emotionally. Persons who enter int ...al partners for his [[submissive]](s). Sometimes, there will be more than one dominant in a poly household, more commonly there will be a single dominant

...ulty in acquiring such coloured handkerchiefs, but particularly because no one save for a gay sex shop clerk ever bothered to learn them all. ...everyday street wear (but red hankies need to be further explicated before one makes a pass in non-gay contexts).

...e uncomfortable with indecent exposure. As a French commissioner noted, “One is astonished at seeing English masters remove a garment which the prudery In discussions of caning, one case always arises. The civilized pleasure of erotic flagellation bears no

* the adoration (I should be so lucky ;-) ) of the one I command;

...entle intro to all this was when my older boyfriend came round to my place one evening. I made us both a drink and when I brought them in to my room he w ...hat to do and made to behave by someone who cares. Being with him was the one time i could really relax.

* The posture is one that many submissive feel at ease in and naturally want to adopt. ...seems to refer to arched-back positions in general (without specifying any one exact position), and [[kajira|kajirae]] are generally placed into such posi

...nge things, it seems to make sense to include something on this delicacy. One source[http://h2g2.com/edited_entry/A185104] alludes to the potential use b

Although in the English language the term "Master" refers to one of expert status in their field, it carries no such automatic or certified In this discussion, we use the term Master to mean "One who Dominates a submissive in a [[power exchange]] situation" of any kind.

...joined together, each wheel acts as an electrode, the current flowing from one to the other through the skin of the [[sub]]. The effect of the current hei

...ttocks attractive while some find extremely fatty buttocks desirable, from one period of fashion to another and even from person to person. ...an be [[Humiliation|humiliating]]. Displaying the buttocks by pulling down one's trousers and [[lingerie|underwear]] is called '''mooning''', possibly bec

...cts are sometimes negotiated for a specific period of time &mdash; such as one year but longer and shorter terms are possible &mdash; while others are lif ...el of power exchange is normally increased over time, though I am aware of one where the final stage was a required dissolution of the relationship. The

...cause people can experience even very similar sensations differently; what one person considers only a mild irritant might seem excruciating to someone el

'''Sex change''' is the physical and/or legal transition from one social gender to the other.

...es the transfer of [[semen]] (spunk, cum) back and forth from the mouth of one person to another, either by kissing, dribbling or spitting.

...ce of temporarily 'removing from' or depriving someone from making uses of one or more of the senses. For total sensory deprivation, one must be deprived of all five senses:

... are close to the skin surface. Waist to shoulders is usually fine, though one should avoid the armpit and sternum. ;Alcohol. :This should be 70%-90% rubbing alcohol (isopropyl). One shouldn't use it on someone who is on [[wikipedia:Disulfiram|Disulfiram or

The '''St Andrews cross''' is one of the most common pieces of [[SM equipment]] and can be found in virtually

... samurai ryuha has been inherited by a hakujin is unique. Angier sensei is one of the foremost teachers and practitioners of ancient samurai arts in the w He encouraged Samurai to sharpen their martial skills. Hojojutsu was one of those skills, the art of binding the enemy with ropes after conquering h

...known as Kuchuk Hanem, and exoticized the image of the nonwestern woman as one who would disrobe as part of a dance performance. It is likely that the wom ...Rouge and Folies Bergere pioneered semi-nude dancing and tableaux vivants. One landmark was the appearance at the Moulin Rouge in 1907 of an actress calle

...sexual practice of partial asphyxiation by strangulation or suffocation of one person by another during [[sexual intercourse]]. The decrease of blood to A sexual partner may or may not be involved in the act, however, if one is excluded the practice can be referred to as '''autoerotic asphyxiation''

...nly the smell of one's own hot-and-stinky shit, and then what is done with one's butt.

Supposedly, Prince Albert, consort of Queen Victoria, wore one, and popularised it among his set. ...'s Wand. Short curved barbells are usually about 3/8 inch or so length, so one ball sits on the lower side of the penis and the other ball sits at the ure

More commonly, it is only one partner who changes their behaviour to any great extent, while the other pa ... I be looking for?" Even a Master and slave can learn things from reading one another's essays on such a subject.

...t practical matters in the home. It literally describes the position that one person holds but is used more widely to encompass the style of relationship ...y' is thought to necessarily include children but there are none, or where one partner is in charge of the other but not necessarily in charge of the chil

...useholds, as well as in erotic spanking, there are companies who cater for one or more of these markets, often in combination with other items (disciplina ...ly the humiliation, if administered on a naked bottom rather than a closed one, except in the case of the ''holed paddle'', which has holes drilled in it

...with a loose-fitting bag (often with [[D-ring]]s attached to the end), and one with a much closer-fitting bag which holds the hand clenched in a fist. The

A '''bondage wheel''' is one of the largest (and most expensive) pieces of [[SM equipment]] that might b

A '''switch''' is one who enjoys both giving and receiving of sensation in sex.

...assiere|bra]]) or '''under bust''' (not covering them). Even an under bust one may give some support to the breasts unless it is so short that it is a ''' ...dern day corset-wearers will testify that corsets can be comfortable, once one is accustomed to wearing them. A properly fitted corset should be comfortab

...th the use of a well-fitted corset (most serious tightlacers have at least one custom&ndash;tailored corset) and very gradual decreases in the waist circu ...be and liver connect can be quite thin, and again, this might have lead to one of the Victorian myths about tightlacing: that a tightlacer can wear her co

One controversial form of body modification is the attempt to resemble another

...henever the temperature and the social situation allows it (including when one is alone).

...ual fetishism|fetishistic]] sexual interest in human [[feet]]. It is also one of the most common fetishistic interests among humans. ...s]], foot fetishism varies widely and can be highly specialized, therefore one fetishist may be aroused by elements another might find repulsive.

...sation between two or more persons via telephone, especially when at least one of the participants [[Masturbation|masturbate]]s or engages in sexual fanta ...ntasy artist", "adult phone entertainer", "audio erotic performer", or any one of dozens of other monikers. The most valued attributes of a phone sex prof

...the orgasm is generally much stronger than normal), or deliberately denied one, either by [[deflation]] (in a male) or by granting only a [[ruined orgasm]

...Venus in Furs]]'' (1870) by [[Leopold von Sacher-Masoch]] - Is essentially one long masochistic fantasy, where the male principal character encourages his ...Later, she resumes her normal life while secretly becoming the property of one specific man, a friend of her lover's.

...ing is not necessarily for [[physical punishment|punishment]]. It may be a one-way game or those involved may take turns to do the spanking, for example b

...book, ''[[SM 101|SM 101: A Realistic Introduction]]'', is considered to be one of the best introductory books on the subject. He is based in San Francisco

... with bondage]], there is the risk of [[postural asphyxia]]. Anyone using one of these beds, both [[Top (BDSM)|tops]] and [[Bottom (BDSM)|bottoms]] shoul

...ld annually for three years from 2004 to 2006. There was information about one to be held for 2007, though there are no indications that it happened. Kin Another event was held in 2008, but that was the last one. It was on Saturday 2nd August 2008 (10.45am until 4pm) at the original ve

...n Francisco, CA (i.e., SOMA on Folsom Street between 7th & 12th Streets--a one mile stretch of open roadway in the city's industrial zone). The Folsom Str One hundred percent of the proceeds from all of FSE's major events, plus portio

...nd leather [[catsuit]]s, cloaks and [[gas mask]]s. He can be considered as one of the major inspiarational figures in the current [[fetish]] scene. At one time he designed a "boot suit", which comprised a pair of [[thighboot|thigh

...to September 1969; there were a total of 161 episodes. The Avengers became one of the most popular television series of all time, eventually reaching audi

...rm part of a [[scene]] in [[medical play]] where the [[dominant]] inflicts one or more embarrassing and humiliating quasi-medical procedures on the [[subm

...g Straw Man arguments to score points off other members. When hilberting, one specifically misquotes, quotes out of context, or makes a misleading summar ...nvolve attacking someone for an opinion they have condemned (in text which one has not reproduced). For example, the statement "Murder is taken for grant

Signal whips are one of the most popular whips for use in [[BDSM]] play, as their short length a

...l sex, there is a higher risk (varying on how much higher by what activity one is referring to) of getting [[sexually transmitted disease]]s (including [[ One can reduce the risk of getting [[sexually transmitted disease]]s this way b

...ps, Domestic Discipline is based on the consensually agreed framework that one partner will adopt the role of overall 'leader' in a loving, committed, mon ...[spanking]], but centres around rules of behaviour laid down by [[Dominant|one party]] and nominally agreed to by [[Submissive|the other]]. Couples who b

...red in leather, fabric, or similar material. The rod of a crop thickens at one end to form a handle, and terminates in a thin, flexible tress such as woun

...ry''' is a form of [[polygamy]] where a woman has more than one husband at one time. In the United Kingdom, this is illegal. ...be of India, where it is sometimes the custom for several brothers to have one wife. In this context, the practice is intended to keep land - a precious r

...mor, and aesthetic traditions were largely derived from the minstrel show. One of the first burlesque troupes was the Rentz-Santley Novelty and Burlesque Burlesque rapidly adapted the minstrel show's tripartite structure: part one was composed of songs and dances rendered by a female company, interspersed

...are needs to be taken. A human branding mark is normally much smaller than one for cattle, so care needs to be taken with the design as something too comp ...rked for all men; to all men she is a slave girl (usually, of course, only one among them, at a given time, will be her master). The brand is impersonal,

It is normal for one testis to hang lower than the other (usually the left). This is primarily d ...s, testicular prostheses are available to mimic the appearance and feel of one or both testicles, when absent as from injury or medical treatment.

[[Image:Kajira-kef.png|thumb|100px|right|One version of the Kajira "Kef" symbol or "Staff and fronds", symbolizing "beau ...dely-spoken lingua franca in the known regions of the planet Gor); this is one of the few complete Gorean-language sentences given in the Gor novels.

...gers associated with physical restraint apply to the use of thumbcuffs. No-one should ever be left alone when restrained. You are responsible for your own

...ook into each other's eyes during sex. The bodies are often linked around one another to add a lot of sensual feel, especially for the woman.

...ck pressed against his front, her legs slightly parted, her hips tilted to one side, and her knees bent. They line up to align his [[penis]] with her [[va ...here is little visual stimulation for either party, as they are not facing one another and cannot see each other's bodies clearly.

...other sources, or contributed by users. Generally, weblogs are devoted to one or several subjects or themes but since anybody with an [[Internet]] connec

...dage harness is always close fitting and cannot be removed without undoing one or more buckles. Also, a bondage harness usually includes a [[crotch strap]

... [[rope]]. Many people use a strong dog leash, especially a black leather one. Typical length in total is between three and six feet.

... to join them, while others require an approval from the list owner before one can join. In even stricter mailing lists, every message must be approved by

''No-one has yet entered their Personal Experiences here. Are ''you'' into Gor in a

...own submission: [[honour bondage]], obedient cooperation in when and where one has [[orgasm]]s, [[exhibitionism]] on command. Things that absolutely requi

''No-one had yet entered their Personal Experiences here. Are ''you'' involved in a

One theory of shoe fetishism, as well as of foot fetishism, is that an infant's ...eatured costumes by the fetish fashion designer [[John Sutcliffe]], who at one time designed a "boot suit", which comprised a pair of thigh-length boots,

...The book is self-described as a "breakthrough in sexual literature" and is one of the few books written by a BDSM "practitioner" that is commonly quoted b

...rea. A small haematoma will usually be reabsorbed without lasting damage. One that is large or keeps growing (because fresh blood keeps accumulating) can ...blood build up in the space around the testicles. They can be corrected at one's convenience unless they become infected, in which case prompt treatment i

...en concentrating on issues of honesty and trust - while allowing more than one in the relationship. It does not have the sexual variety or freedom of mor ...nships with more than one person. Typically, such relationships have only one [[dominant]] with multiple [[submissive]] partners.

... before may wish to begin by gently inserting a finger.&sup1; Afterwards, one can move up to a small butt plug. A &#189;" to 1" (1 to 2&#189; cm) diamet &sup1; One should remember to defecate and lubricate the area beforehand. For those w

...ooks issued under the name 'Yolanda Celbridge' are the work of one person, one can only point to uniformity of style and plot construction, and perhaps al

...nique is to put a rope round the torso just above the breasts, and another one just below them, then push the ropes together to squeeze the breasts from t ...l to the touch. It is better to have several short sessions than one long one. If you decide to [[flagellation|flagellate]] bound breasts, ensure that y

A common technique is to make the captive stand on one [[foot]] and bind the other leg, for example with an [[ankle]] to [[thigh]]

...thighs against the abdomen may restrict breathing. As shown in the photo, one way to hold the legs against the chest is to use a [[collar]] and attach it The ball tie is one of the positions possible in [[self-bondage]], but mobility is so limited t

'''Head bondage''', in [[BDSM]] play, may refer to one of two techniques.

* [http://www.vetrap.co.uk/acatalog/3M_Vetrap_Bandages.html Vetrap], just one of many [[vanilla]] sources

... point', causing orgasm to occur too early. The real skill lies in knowing one's partner well enough to be able to keep them hovering almost on the very e ...hen used within fairly established relationships, rather than more casual 'one-off' encounters.

...es to each other and defining their roles, attitudes and behaviours toward one another. There can be no encompassing statement about what life as a slave : 1. The state of one bound in servitude as the property of a slaveholder or household.

...nced [[Dom]] is playing with a less experienced [[sub]]. In physical play, one can slowly move toward more intense forms of an activity, checking in conti

*In Scandinavia, Finland and Russia there is also a tradition to strike one's body with soaked birch twigs in the Finnish sauna to increase blood circu

"Where spirit and flesh are one - Pagan Master/slave lifestyles - A balanced symbiotic natural order which

...all, potentially sharp remainings from the manufacturing process on them. One may use a nail file or semi-coarse sand paper to remove this extraneous mat ...or Women", recommends a toy based on the anal bead concept that is made of one continuous piece of silicone. Insertion and removal from the anus is smooth

...phic]] discussions of tease and denial seem to be in a [[femdom]] context; one can only presume that the same is true of actual practice. The general theo

A '''supplicant''', one who supplicates, is a term that is applied to humble petitioners.

...d C certainly didn't involve any non-kinky people in the situation, but at one point she remarked, in my presence, to a couple of other women, that my coc I've done this one from the other side, too. I had just given '''K''' a hand-spanking, and whe

...ry erotic physical competition involving at least one woman and leading to one or more [[orgasm]]s. There are several variations, but the most common vers <font color="#88CCFF">'''Erotic Wrestling:'''</font> This is one of the most common sexfight forms. Two women [[wrestling|wrestle]] naked, o

...to be laced very tightly. Thus it is impossible to sit down while wearing one, and movement of the [[thigh]]s is restricted, often making walking difficu

...; a good example is the comic book series and movie "Sin City", which has one of its characters wearing a bondage harness.

...cap, and open shirt, mixing motorcycle cop with marine. Leather/Uniform is one of the terms found in gay guides. [[File:Fetish fashion 05.jpg|thumb|right|Two women, one in [[latex clothing|latex]] uniform]]

...platform for subsequent ties. For example, if the shinju is not too tight, one can tie the arms wrist-to-elbows behind the back to form a [[box tie]].

...m fetish is common in both Japanese and Western [[pornography]], making it one of the most widespread clothing-oriented fetishes worldwide. However, the b ...y be a jumper in green, blue or plaid. Sometimes there is a blazer and if one is worn it should have a school crest on the breast pocket. The blouse worn

...ey cannot see what they are doing. Tension can be relieved by rolling onto one's side. However, if the position is sufficiently stringent, the bound perso