Dom
Dom is a shortened version of the word dominant, used as a noun.
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Gender
The term Dom can be used gender-independent but unlike noun usage of Dominant, Dom normally would be used only for males. The female equivalent is Domme or Dominatrix.
Variations
People are clearly entitled to call themselves whatever they want and the term Dom or Dominant is sometimes mixed up with both Top and Master. Indeed, a Top might be dominant and a Master almost certainly is.
Role
A Dom is a partner who takes the role of giver or controller in such acts as bondage, discipline, humiliation, or servitude. Such acts are performed on a sub. Most Doms incorporate all aspects of being a Top.
While a Dom will take care of his sub, he will be giving orders or otherwise employ physical or psychological techniques of control. He might instruct the submissive to perform the act on him.
The relationship between a Dom and his sub may be very transitory or can be permanent. Some Doms are married to their sub. Long term relationships are known as D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships.
A Dom might be a sadist but is unlikely to be a masochist.
Some partners switch roles from one encounter to the other, or even during a single encounter, depending on mood and preference. See Switch.