Advice: Strap-on dildo
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| − | The ultimate tool for power exchange. | + | The ultimate tool for power exchange accoridng to [[Mistress Vamp]]. |
| − | A strap-on is the harness that holds your dildo, usually attached to the Mons Pubis (although, there are harnesses that can be worn on the thigh). The harness allows a woman to use a dildo as if it were her own | + | A strap-on is the harness that holds your dildo, usually attached to the Mons Pubis (although, there are harnesses that can be worn on the thigh). The harness allows a woman to use a dildo as if it were her own cock (AKA a "Strapadictomi" ''sic''), or allows a man the opportunity to either double penetrate their partner or simply use it in place of their own cock. |
| − | Most Dildos give no "feedback" sensation, and | + | Most Dildos give no "feedback" sensation although with practice the wearer will start to feel like it is part of them. Some harnesses like the [[vac-u-lock]] have a number of attachments including bullet toys, dildos and butt plugs for the wearer which for some can be distracting and for others a double dose of pleasure. |
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| + | In some people's opions strap-ons can be bloody hard work to use! Using one gave me more respect for mens' abilities!It can be very tiring on the arms holding yourself up, though I may just be doing it wrong.(opinion of [[Spicecat]]). | ||
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Of course, for deeper action, I might change position and take control but there's loads of positions to keep the effort low but the emotionals high. | Of course, for deeper action, I might change position and take control but there's loads of positions to keep the effort low but the emotionals high. | ||
| − | I, [[demolitionred]], have many strap-ons but only my [[vac-u- | + | I, [[demolitionred]], have many strap-ons but only my [[vac-u-lock]] qualifies as a cock. It gives great control as the vacuum secures the cock very firmly in place and a nice selection of very life-like phalluses. |
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| + | I, [[Mistress Vamp]] would recommend you look for the following when buying a harness: | ||
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| + | Make sure the size is adjustable | ||
| + | Try before you buy if you can, make sure the fit is right and it feels comfortable | ||
| + | Decide on the style you prefer thong, harness or thigh | ||
| + | Make sure the harness has adjustable O rings (so you can use dildos of different widths) | ||
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| + | I would recommend you look for the following when buying a dildo: | ||
| + | Decide on the type of material you want. There is a huge list to choose from including: | ||
| + | silicone, generic rubber, jelly, cyberskin, fiberfoam, lucite, acrylic, metal and glass. They all have different properties, are cleaned differently and obviously feel very different. | ||
| + | Do you want a vibrating dildo? | ||
| − | == Strap on Suppliers == | + | == Strap-on & Harness Suppliers == |
| + | www.vac-u-lock.com | ||
A good source of strap on harnesses and helpful experienced staff is | A good source of strap on harnesses and helpful experienced staff is | ||
Revision as of 19:30, 24 March 2005
The ultimate tool for power exchange accoridng to Mistress Vamp.
A strap-on is the harness that holds your dildo, usually attached to the Mons Pubis (although, there are harnesses that can be worn on the thigh). The harness allows a woman to use a dildo as if it were her own cock (AKA a "Strapadictomi" sic), or allows a man the opportunity to either double penetrate their partner or simply use it in place of their own cock.
Most Dildos give no "feedback" sensation although with practice the wearer will start to feel like it is part of them. Some harnesses like the vac-u-lock have a number of attachments including bullet toys, dildos and butt plugs for the wearer which for some can be distracting and for others a double dose of pleasure.
In some people's opions strap-ons can be bloody hard work to use! Using one gave me more respect for mens' abilities!It can be very tiring on the arms holding yourself up, though I may just be doing it wrong.(opinion of Spicecat).
Good god
what.? NO.
You make them do the work. If you lie back let them ride your cock, you get great visuals and better friction. Off course this also means you can use your or your partners fingers as well.
Of course, for deeper action, I might change position and take control but there's loads of positions to keep the effort low but the emotionals high.
I, demolitionred, have many strap-ons but only my vac-u-lock qualifies as a cock. It gives great control as the vacuum secures the cock very firmly in place and a nice selection of very life-like phalluses.
I, Mistress Vamp would recommend you look for the following when buying a harness:
Make sure the size is adjustable Try before you buy if you can, make sure the fit is right and it feels comfortable Decide on the style you prefer thong, harness or thigh Make sure the harness has adjustable O rings (so you can use dildos of different widths)
I would recommend you look for the following when buying a dildo:
Decide on the type of material you want. There is a huge list to choose from including: silicone, generic rubber, jelly, cyberskin, fiberfoam, lucite, acrylic, metal and glass. They all have different properties, are cleaned differently and obviously feel very different. Do you want a vibrating dildo?
Strap-on & Harness Suppliers
www.vac-u-lock.com
A good source of strap on harnesses and helpful experienced staff is Sh! The sex store for Women in East London.
Also in East London, (Obviously the Dildo Capital of Europe!), Babes 'n' Horny. These guys make their own beautiful Silicone dildos, in too many colours to count, and have an expert saddlemaker on board stitching up their harnesses. Mistress Nikki buys dildos from no other! Having had several latex ones break on her, she would rather invest the money in a top quality, UK produced product.
