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</table>Interesdomhttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Taken_In_Hand&diff=18096&oldid=prevRopeuser: heterosexual - important to add this2009-01-28T09:07:22Z<p>heterosexual - important to add this</p>
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</table>Ropeuserhttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Taken_In_Hand&diff=13367&oldid=prevInteresdom: /* External links */2007-08-30T06:10:32Z<p><span dir="auto"><span class="autocomment">External links</span></span></p>
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</table>Interesdomhttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Taken_In_Hand&diff=12574&oldid=prevInteresdom: External link to similar concept2007-03-07T08:11:25Z<p>External link to similar concept</p>
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</table>Interesdomhttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Taken_In_Hand&diff=9365&oldid=prevVicky: typo2006-09-16T21:29:43Z<p>typo</p>
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</table>Vickyhttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Taken_In_Hand&diff=8736&oldid=prevInteresdom: typos & tweaks2006-07-26T10:36:42Z<p>typos & tweaks</p>
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</table>Interesdomhttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Taken_In_Hand&diff=8721&oldid=prevBt: touch ups2006-07-26T04:03:25Z<p>touch ups</p>
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<tr><td class='diff-marker'>−</td><td style="background: #ffa; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div><del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">The </del>'''Taken In Hand''' relationship is a [[Informed consent|consensually]] male-led exclusive [[Monogamy|monogamous]] relationship in which the man's control is real and for the purpose of creating a deeply connected, fully engaged relationship with a white-hot sexual connection<del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">. How the man expresses his leadership and control is an individual matter, but it is for the benefit of the relationship rather than being purely self-serving</del>. The <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">Taken In Hand man protects and cherishes the woman he leads. The Taken In Hand woman responds positively to her man's authority and leadership</del>.  </div></td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="background: #cfc; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div><ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">A </ins>'''Taken In Hand''' relationship is a [[Informed consent|consensually]] male-led exclusive [[Monogamy|monogamous]] relationship in which the man's control is real and for the purpose of creating a deeply connected, fully engaged relationship with a white-hot sexual connection. The <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">term has been popularized by a UK Web site 9see links below)</ins>.  </div></td></tr>
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<tr><td class='diff-marker'>−</td><td style="background: #ffa; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div>Taken In Hand <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">couples often think of themselves as [[vanilla]] (if they even know that word in this context!) </del>and <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">tend to be  unfamiliar with or turned-off by [[BDSM]] literature, perhaps because of its exotic language, customs and rituals</del>. <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">Many </del>Taken In Hand <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">couples think of what they are doing as being very natural</del>. <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">However, as with other types of </del>[[<del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">power exchange</del>]] relationship, <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">there are no assumptions about the reasons some prefer this kind of relationship. Nor is there any assumption that this is morally superior to any other kind of relationship. It is just a preference some have</del>.</div></td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="background: #cfc; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div><ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">How the man expresses his leadership and control is an individual matter, but it is for the benefit of the relationship rather than being purely self-serving. The </ins>Taken In Hand <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">man protects </ins>and <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">cherishes the woman he leads</ins>. <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">The </ins>Taken In Hand <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">woman responds positively to her man's authority and leadership</ins>. <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">It is not necessarlly a </ins>[[<ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">Domestic discipline|domestic discipline</ins>]] relationship, <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">though it can be</ins>.</div></td></tr>
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<tr><td class='diff-marker'>−</td><td style="background: #ffa; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div>Taken In Hand <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">is </del>not <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">about </del>the <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">woman being slavishly obedient </del>or <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">submissive </del>by <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">default</del>, <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">it is more likely to be about the man correcting and controlling her to the delight </del>of <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">both</del>. In some <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">D/s relationships</del>, <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">the woman might aspire </del>to <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">be more submissive</del>, <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">whereas </del>in <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">many a Taken In Hand relationship</del>, <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">the woman might </del>have <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">no such aspiration</del>.  </div></td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="background: #cfc; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div>Taken In Hand <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">couples often think of themselves as [[vanilla]] (thouhgh many amy </ins>not <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">know </ins>the <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">word in this context!) and tend to be unfamiliar with </ins>or <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">turned-off </ins>by <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">[[BDSM]] or its literature</ins>, <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">perhaps because </ins>of <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">its exotic language, customs and rituals</ins>. <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">Many Taken </ins>In <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">Hand couples think of what they are doing as being very ordinary. However, as with other types of [[power exchange]] relationship, there are no typical reasons </ins>some <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">prefer this kind of relationship</ins>, to <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">another. Nor is there any assumption that this is morally superior to any other kind of relationship. It is</ins>, in <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">fact</ins>, <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">a preference some </ins>have.</div></td></tr>
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</table>Bthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Taken_In_Hand&diff=6886&oldid=prevTanos: Put in D/s category2006-01-26T11:54:48Z<p>Put in D/s category</p>
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</table>Tanoshttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Taken_In_Hand&diff=5017&oldid=prevInteresdom at 19:58, 5 August 20052005-08-05T19:58:09Z<p></p>
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<tr><td class='diff-marker'> </td><td style="background: #eee; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div>Taken In Hand couples often think of themselves as [[vanilla]] (if they even know that word in this context!) and tend to be  unfamiliar with or turned-off by [[BDSM]] literature, perhaps because of its exotic language, customs and rituals. Many Taken In Hand couples think of what they are doing as being very natural. However, as with other types of [[power exchange]] relationship, there are no assumptions about the reasons some prefer this kind of relationship. Nor is there any assumption that this is morally superior to any other kind of relationship. It is just a preference some have.</div></td><td class='diff-marker'> </td><td style="background: #eee; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div>Taken In Hand couples often think of themselves as [[vanilla]] (if they even know that word in this context!) and tend to be  unfamiliar with or turned-off by [[BDSM]] literature, perhaps because of its exotic language, customs and rituals. Many Taken In Hand couples think of what they are doing as being very natural. However, as with other types of [[power exchange]] relationship, there are no assumptions about the reasons some prefer this kind of relationship. Nor is there any assumption that this is morally superior to any other kind of relationship. It is just a preference some have.</div></td></tr>
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<tr><td class='diff-marker'>−</td><td style="background: #ffa; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div><del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">[http://www.takeninhand.com/ </del>Taken In Hand<del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">] </del>couples often think of themselves as [[vanilla]] (if they even know that word in this context!) and tend to be  unfamiliar with or turned-off by [[BDSM]] literature, perhaps because of its exotic language, customs and rituals. Many <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">[http://www.takeninhand.com/ </del>Taken In Hand<del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">] </del>couples think of what they are doing as being very natural. However, [<del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">http://www.takeninhand.com/ Taken In Hand</del>] <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">does not make any </del>assumptions about the reasons some prefer this kind of relationship. Nor is there any assumption that <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">[http://www.takeninhand.com/ Taken In Hand] </del>is morally superior to any other kind of relationship. It is just a preference some have.</div></td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="background: #cfc; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div>Taken In Hand couples often think of themselves as [[vanilla]] (if they even know that word in this context!) and tend to be  unfamiliar with or turned-off by [[BDSM]] literature, perhaps because of its exotic language, customs and rituals. Many Taken In Hand couples think of what they are doing as being very natural. However, <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">as with other types of </ins>[<ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">[power exchange</ins>]<ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">] relationship, there are no </ins>assumptions about the reasons some prefer this kind of relationship. Nor is there any assumption that <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">this </ins>is morally superior to any other kind of relationship. It is just a preference some have.</div></td></tr>
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<tr><td class='diff-marker'>−</td><td style="background: #ffa; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div><del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">[http://www</del>.<del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">takeninhand.com</del>/ Taken In Hand<del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">]  </del>can sound boringly conservative and conventional to anyone with a penchant for some of the more elaborate, painful, ritualistic, theatrical, humiliating [[Sadomasochism|SM]] or [[Domination and submission|D/s]] practices, but it often seems hardcore, extreme, dangerous and scary to anyone who doesn't like the idea of the man's leadership being real instead of stylised or confined to set times and negotiated <del class="diffchange diffchange-inline">scenes</del>.</div></td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="background: #cfc; color:black; font-size: smaller;"><div><ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">Taken In Hand is not about the woman being slavishly obedient or submissive by default, it is more likely to be about the man correcting and controlling her to the delight of both</ins>. <ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">In some D</ins>/<ins class="diffchange diffchange-inline">s relationships, the woman might aspire to be more submissive, whereas in many a Taken In Hand relationship, the woman might have no such aspiration. </ins></div></td></tr>
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