Taken In Hand

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The Taken In Hand relationship is a consensually male-led exclusive monogamous relationship in which the man's control is real and for the purpose of creating a deeply connected, fully engaged relationship with a white-hot sexual connection. How the man expresses his leadership and control is an individual matter, but it is for the benefit of the relationship rather than being purely self-serving. The Taken In Hand man protects and cherishes the woman he leads. The Taken In Hand woman responds positively to her man's authority and leadership.

Taken In Hand couples often think of themselves as vanilla (if they even know that word in this context!) and tend to be unfamiliar with or turned-off by BDSM literature, perhaps because of its exotic language, customs and rituals. Many Taken In Hand couples think of what they are doing as being very natural. However, Taken In Hand does not make any assumptions about the reasons some prefer this kind of relationship. Nor is there any assumption that Taken In Hand is morally superior to any other kind of relationship. It is just a preference some have.

Taken In Hand can sound boringly conservative and conventional to anyone with a penchant for some of the more elaborate, painful, ritualistic, theatrical, humiliating SM or D/s practices, but it often seems hardcore, extreme, dangerous and scary to anyone who doesn't like the idea of the man's leadership being real instead of stylised or confined to set times and negotiated scenes.

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