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In [[BDSM]], a '''top''' or ''dominant'' is a partner who takes the role of giver in such acts as [[bondage]], [[flogging]], [[humiliation]], or [[servitude]]. The top performs acts such as these upon the [[bottom]].
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==Adjective==
  
A top is not necessarily [[dominant]], and vice versa. The top is sometimes the partner who is ''following'' instructions, i.e., he tops when, and in the manner, requested by the bottom. A person who applies sensation or control to a bottom, but does so to the bottom's explicit instruction is a ''service top''. Contrast the service top with the pure dominant, who might give orders to a [[submissive]], or otherwise employ physical or psychological techniques of control, but might instruct the submissive to perform the act on him.
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''Being'' dominant is about exercising influence or control. Governing matters; being in charge. Predisposed to taking over and wanting to maintain power.
  
Also, a top in BDSM need not be a top (i.e. insertive sex partner); for example, a female dominant may command her submissive to penetrate her.
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==Noun==
  
In order to explore BDSM sex, it is essential for a top to be responsive to the needs, feelings, and limits of his or her bottom. Otherwise the scene can be ruined, being simply painful rather than erotic.
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In [[BDSM]], ''a'' [[dominant]] is a person who takes the dominant role for the duration of a [[scene]] or is a dominant partner within a [[power exchange]] relationship.  
  
Note that in BDSM sex, it is not uncommon for two partners to switch roles from one encounter to the other, or even during a single encounter, depending on mood and preference. See [[switch]].
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This term can be associated with being on the giving or controlling end of bondage, discipline or sadism but a [[dominant]]'s activities might not include any of these.
  
In [[Japanese bondage]] and sexually-themed [[anime]] and [[manga]] (especially [[yaoi]]), a top is referred to as ''[[seme]]'', a term from [[Martial Arts]].
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A [[dominant]] need not be a [[Top (sex)|sexual top]]; for example, a female dominant may command her [[submissive]] to penetrate her.
  
==See also==
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The term [[dominant]] as a noun is mostly synonymous with [[Dom]] but some people use it more widely to denote anyone disposed to be dominant and would therefore say that a [[dominant]] might be a [[Top]], a [[Dom]] or a [[Master]].
*[[Bottom]]
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*[[Switch]]
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*[[Domination and submission]]
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== References and further reading ==
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Note that some partners like to switch roles from one encounter to the other, or even during a single encounter, depending on mood and preference. See [[switch]].
* Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy. ''The New Topping Book.'' Greenery Press, 2003. ISBN 1890159360.
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==See also==
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* [[BDSM Roles]]
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* [[Top (BDSM)|Top]]
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* [[Dom]] [[Domme]] [[Dominatrix]]
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* [[Master (BDSM)]] [[Mistress]]
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* [[Submissive]]
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* [[Switch]]
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* [[Sadist]]
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* [[Domination and submission]]
  
 
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Revision as of 11:08, 6 April 2005

Adjective

Being dominant is about exercising influence or control. Governing matters; being in charge. Predisposed to taking over and wanting to maintain power.

Noun

In BDSM, a dominant is a person who takes the dominant role for the duration of a scene or is a dominant partner within a power exchange relationship.

This term can be associated with being on the giving or controlling end of bondage, discipline or sadism but a dominant's activities might not include any of these.

A dominant need not be a sexual top; for example, a female dominant may command her submissive to penetrate her.

The term dominant as a noun is mostly synonymous with Dom but some people use it more widely to denote anyone disposed to be dominant and would therefore say that a dominant might be a Top, a Dom or a Master.

Note that some partners like to switch roles from one encounter to the other, or even during a single encounter, depending on mood and preference. See switch.

See also

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