Chastity belt - Personal Experiences
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Chastity Belts - Personal Experiences
This article is designed to allow people to share experience and give advice about Chastity Belts. If you feel that you have a valid contribution to make then please add it as a new section at the end of the article. If you have a comment to make about someone's advice then please use the discussion page for this. Readers, the advice given here is personal opinion and should be treated with caution. Please read the article on BDSM and the law for advice on the legal implications of this.
Many people who are into BDSM find the idea of chastity belts and erotic sexual denial an exciting concept as it allows the D/s dynamic to be extended into every day life.
Balzac's experience of male chastity devices
We have used a CB2000 for several years now mainly for short term use prior to a scene to increase the sexual tension in the run up to it. We also use it when going to clubs (if I am in sub mode) as we feel that if I am going to be exposed/stripped in public then it is more socially acceptable in a club environment to have the penis constrained by the device.
More recently we have purchased a Steel Pleasures chastity device. This is very different from the CB2000 and has much more of an industrial/SM feel to it. Being made of stainless steel is is much heavier that the CB2000 but in many respects much more comfortable to wear. We are now using it for an experiment in longer term wear, something we have not done before. Being both switches, our reasons for doing this are perhaps different than for many sub males. Wearing it does not make me feel particularly submissive although with the right triggers it can, of course, make me very subby. What it does do is to make me feel very connected sexually to my partner; I liken it to wearing a wedding ring, it is a token that my sexuality belongs to her. I do carry an emergency key, sealed, in my wallet, just in case I need to remove the device unexpectedly. Because we do not use the device as a tool for submission I can ask her to remove it at any time (so far she has never refused my request) and I would have no problem in domming her once it had been removed. It has definitely given a huge boost to our joint sexuality which is always but under stress when a baby arrives!
